Lessons from Sandcastles
Back from a relaxing family holiday in beautiful Brittany, which was slightly warmer than here and apart from the odd heavy shower, rained mainly at night.
The first day, we went down to the beach at Carantec to find a man (I’ll call him Pierre) finishing a giant sand sculpture. You can see the very impressive finished product in the left hand photo, surrounded by protective barriers.
Although he was nearly finished, he still spent another four days working on the sculpture. It was fascinating to see him at work and there was always a crowd watching him. He would rework areas so many times. If he was not happy with the goblins nose he would reshape it using water and differently shaped smoothing planes. Every so often he would step back, look at his work and then decide to tweak another piece. He was obviously an Artist who enjoyed his work and we thought it must be nice job being paid to “play with sand”.
Great care was taken to place spotlights, with the cables being buried in a trench in the sand. We all thought this lovely piece would last for ages until the wind and rain wore it away.
Then when we returned on the 15th of July, (the day after the Bastille national holiday) we found just a big mound of sand with children playing on it. The protective barriers and spotlights had been removed. See the top right hand photo. (I could not take a photo without children as they were always playing, so their faces have been blacked out)
I was unpleasantly surprised to see so much lovely work ruined overnight. Pierre obviously did know the sculpture would only last till the 14th. Despite this he still gave 100% to his work, knowing it would be immediately destroyed. The writer Susan Jeffers, believes what ever job you’re in, you should still give it 100%, because that way you’re making the best of your situation and your own mental attitude and thus job satisfaction is likely to improve.
I’ve often found myself in jobs where I know my best efforts are unlikely to result in what I would define as “success”. In these situations it’s important to concentrate on what you can control, not what you can’t. For example, I was brought in to manage a situation when a specific division was failing badly. My role was to resolve the immediate crisis. I quickly found some employees had been very badly treated and there appeared to be limited understanding or commitment to rectifying these issues. This was a huge contributory factor to the general under performance of this particular organisation. I did not have the power or authority to resolve many of these issues.
I thought about walking away as it appeared unlikely I could solve the division’s problems. I felt however I could make some improvement and from a career perspective did want to gain experience in this particular sector
So I detached, from the individual employee issues, and concentrated on the process. This meant my work effort went into developing processes and procedures that supported better treatment of employees, which in turn supported better performance.
Ultimately, the situation did improve, not to the extent I would have liked, but I did obtain valuable experience and the organisation was satisfied.
Being able to detach, but stay focused and not try to control every situation is important in so many walks of life. Whether you’re dealing with relationship difficulties, your children, trying to get a new job, or studying for exams.
For example, You can’t control whether you’ll get your ideal job, but you can control how you present your CV, how much company research you do, whether you practice potential interview questions, how you dress, whether you arrive for the interview on time. etc
Pierre could not control what happened to his beautiful sand sculpture, but he really seemed to enjoy putting it together. Perhaps he also got job satisfaction from the obvious appreciation of the watching chrowd.
So focusing on the job rather than the end result will enable increased job satisfaction.
Note
If you find yourself constantly worrying about how to control or manage events and people in your life, you might find Melodie Beattie’s book, “Beyond co-dependency” gives useful insights. The Americanisms can be irritating but it’s still well worthwhile.
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